Comments for getButterflied.com https://getbutterflied.com A Community of People Helping People Live Better Lives Thu, 06 Jun 2024 17:43:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.8.24 Comment on Stay True to Yourself and Live a Life of No Regrets by Neal https://getbutterflied.com/stay-true-to-yourself-and-live-a-life-of-no-regrets/#comment-3574 Thu, 06 Jun 2024 17:43:32 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1206#comment-3574 Thanks man. I’m currently battling what I want to do in this life vs “what I should be doing”, so his was helpful. I see this was written almost 10 years ago.. assuming you followed your own advice, how did things turn out?

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Comment on A Shifting Perspective: Doing Things For The Sake Of Doing Them by ahmadmanga https://getbutterflied.com/a-shifting-perspective-doing-things-for-the-sake-of-doing-them/#comment-1853 Mon, 18 Jan 2021 05:25:47 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1440#comment-1853 I really needed to read this, Thank You! When I tell people, I can do this but I can’t do it for more than a week, they tell me “but you’re good at it, why?” I don’t know, because I’ll just stop? Not only I’m not comfortable doing something when I don’t want it, I’m stubborn enough to not care about losing when that happen.

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Comment on A Shifting Perspective: Doing Things For The Sake Of Doing Them by Ritu Hembrom https://getbutterflied.com/a-shifting-perspective-doing-things-for-the-sake-of-doing-them/#comment-1652 Wed, 02 Sep 2020 05:58:06 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1440#comment-1652 Even I feel I m doing things just for the sake of doing and that annoys me more that why am so messed up soul .

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Comment on Inside The Mind Of Jenny (How to Become a Digital Nomad as a Non-techy Person) – Jennifer Lachs by yash https://getbutterflied.com/inside-the-mind-of-jenny-the-digital-nomad/#comment-231 Wed, 10 Apr 2019 07:41:31 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1683#comment-231 Thanks for the post.
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Comment on What Is Education, Actually? – Chris van Niekerk by NANDITA TUDU https://getbutterflied.com/what-is-education-actually/#comment-186 Sun, 27 May 2018 16:55:41 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1385#comment-186 Yaa exactly,thank u

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Scott Elmgren https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-144 Tue, 29 Nov 2016 12:51:50 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-144 Of course, Nick!

Thanks for letting me share my story!

Cheers,
Scott

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Nick https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-140 Thu, 17 Nov 2016 20:44:20 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-140 Hi Scott,

Thanks for your article. I think it struck a chord with many people!

Cheers
Nick

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-139 Thu, 17 Nov 2016 20:42:42 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-139 Hi Amy,

Glad you enjoyed it. It all starts with contemplation and then you just need to start taking some steps.

Cheers
Nick

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Scott Elmgren https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-138 Mon, 14 Nov 2016 12:55:49 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-138 Hi Amy!

Thanks for sharing! It sounds like you’re on the right track to make a positive change in your career life! It’s never too late to give ourselves a happy and fulfilling life, it just takes some extra work, but it’s well worth it! If you do decide to hire a coach, I’d recommend talking to a few just to see what their process is, and who you connect with as we all approach things a bit differently.

In your corner,
Scott

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Amy https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-137 Sun, 13 Nov 2016 21:00:37 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-137 This is a great article! I wish I had this advice when I was younger. I too knew what I picked in college wasn’t really a good fit. I’ve been doing tit for 17 years! I didn’t hate all the years but did feel unfulfilled and bored. This lead to stress and anxiety! Now that I am 40 years old, a wife and mother of two I am looking for a career change. It is a long process and soul searching. Thank you for sharing. I may need a career coach!

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Nick https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-136 Sun, 13 Nov 2016 13:00:56 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-136 Hi Matthew,

Glad you enjoyed the article. What was the biggest take-out for you?

Cheers,
Nick

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Scott Elmgren https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-135 Sat, 12 Nov 2016 21:18:21 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-135 You’re welcome, Matt! I’m glad you found value in it!

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Comment on How Scott Traded Money and Career Success For a Life of Living Intentionally by Matthew anderson https://getbutterflied.com/trading-money-career-succcess-living-intentionally/#comment-134 Sat, 12 Nov 2016 15:13:00 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25119#comment-134 This is great! Thank you for taking the time to do this and for outlining your experience.

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Comment on How to Land Your First Freelance Writing Gig, As a Beginner (Part 1) by mimi https://getbutterflied.com/how-to-land-your-first-freelance-writing-gig-as-a-beginner-part-1/#comment-127 Sun, 18 Sep 2016 07:31:36 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25089#comment-127 I want to be a freelance writer.

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Comment on Stay True to Yourself and Live a Life of No Regrets by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/stay-true-to-yourself-and-live-a-life-of-no-regrets/#comment-126 Fri, 08 Jan 2016 22:37:57 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1206#comment-126 Hi Jess,
Thank you for the kind words. I am so happy it inspired you.

Cheers
Nick

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Comment on Stay True to Yourself and Live a Life of No Regrets by Jessica Garlick https://getbutterflied.com/stay-true-to-yourself-and-live-a-life-of-no-regrets/#comment-79 Mon, 30 Nov 2015 09:45:14 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1206#comment-79 Nick – this is a beautiful post. you inspire me to follow my heart xx

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Comment on Don’t Fight So Hard: Let Things Flow by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/dont-fight-so-hard-let-things-flow/#comment-67 Tue, 24 Nov 2015 19:49:20 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1430#comment-67 Hi David,

Thanks for the reply and your thoughts. I don’t think my brother or father are advocating complacency at all. So not sure how you got this from the post to be honest. But I do agree being complacent is not the answer.

Also I don’t think we can ever achieve the exact life we want. Exact is such a precise word. But yes if we don’t attempt to pursue something we want we will never know what could of been and that will leave us with regret.

The whole post is really just about letting things flow and not fighting so hard. Sometimes it is the best way (not the only way).

Nothing is set in stone and whilst I do want to keep writing and keep the blog alive, I want to remain open to other opportunities. Sometimes we lose sight of this when we are so fixated on one thing.

And whilst writing when inspired is ideal, writing does require hard work I guess. I can’t hope to always be inspired. But I always try my best with whatever I undertake.

And yes I have put in lots of hard work here so I do want to keep what I’ve created alive. I just want to take the pressure off.

Cheers
Nick

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Comment on Don’t Fight So Hard: Let Things Flow by David Aimi https://getbutterflied.com/dont-fight-so-hard-let-things-flow/#comment-50 Thu, 19 Nov 2015 15:42:11 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1430#comment-50 Hey Nick,

It’s never a bad thing to reground yourself and take it easy. That being said I don’t particularly agree with your father or brother. I think being complacent is the exact opposite of what you should be doing. Complacency will leave you five years down the road with regret if its not the exact life you want. You have lots of goals and you should strive for them such as traveling etc. Working a full time job AND committing to writing full time is difficult. I don’t commit to any schedule, I aim for once a week. If I have inspiration to do more I do more. I agree and I think writing when inspired is best. I know you’ve been working hard on your blog and writing alot as well as creating a community around it.

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Comment on How To Fund Your Travel Lifestyle (And Land that Job) by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/how-to-fund-your-travel-lifestyle-and-land-that-job/#comment-43 Sun, 11 Oct 2015 17:34:07 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1222#comment-43 Hi,

It’s only a pleasure.

Really glad you enjoyed the article and that you found it of use.

I checked out your site. Keep up the good work!

Nick

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Comment on How To Fund Your Travel Lifestyle (And Land that Job) by theaspiringdigitalnomad https://getbutterflied.com/how-to-fund-your-travel-lifestyle-and-land-that-job/#comment-42 Sun, 11 Oct 2015 14:20:20 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1222#comment-42 Thanks for this post! Gave me a few ideas that I hadn’t yet considered..especially resources specifically targeted to backpackers. Although I don’t consider myself a backpacker, my current nomadic lifestyle would definitely make me suited to making use of some of these. Cheers!

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Comment on Why It’s Ok to Give Up Your Old Dream For a New One – Jennifer Lachs by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/why-its-ok-to-give-up-your-old-dream-for-a-new-one/#comment-38 Fri, 09 Oct 2015 10:33:28 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1191#comment-38 Hi Jenny,

No, thank you for a really beautiful post. Hope we can make guest posting more of a regular thing.

Have a wonderful weekend. I’m getting itchy feet again 🙂

Cheers
Nick

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Comment on Why It’s Ok to Give Up Your Old Dream For a New One – Jennifer Lachs by Jenny https://getbutterflied.com/why-its-ok-to-give-up-your-old-dream-for-a-new-one/#comment-37 Fri, 09 Oct 2015 10:18:32 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1191#comment-37 Thanks again Nick! I’m so excited 🙂

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Comment on The Beauty of The Human Spirit by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/the-beauty-of-the-human-spirit/#comment-33 Thu, 08 Oct 2015 10:22:04 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1059#comment-33 Hi Laura,

That truly is awesome. I saw that photo and I knew it was perfect for me! Thanks for taking it and making it available.

Really would love to visit Peru. Maybe you can give me a few pointers?

How did you come across the site by they way? I am just curious.

Keep Well.
Nick

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Comment on The Beauty of The Human Spirit by Latimer Studios https://getbutterflied.com/the-beauty-of-the-human-spirit/#comment-32 Thu, 08 Oct 2015 04:01:24 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1059#comment-32 I took that photo of the women in Peru 🙂 Cool to see it used in such a positive way in the world. Cheers.

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Comment on The Beauty of The Human Spirit by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/the-beauty-of-the-human-spirit/#comment-19 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 08:30:18 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1059#comment-19 Hi David,

Thank you for the message. Yes, it truly was an amazing experience, one that I will remember for a long time. For me connecting with people whilst traveling is one of the sole reasons why I travel. Of course I also want to see the world, but the people make it that much more enjoyable.

Are you planning on doing some travelling anytime soon? And if so what places are on your list?

Have a great day and week.

Nick

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Comment on The Beauty of The Human Spirit by David Aimi https://getbutterflied.com/the-beauty-of-the-human-spirit/#comment-18 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 01:53:38 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1059#comment-18 Ah! I am very jealous of this. Sounds like you had an amazing experience. I have not traveled much overseas, mostly just in the USA. It is amazing how you can just meet people and connect with them like that. Even moreso I think it was great you took them up on this offer.

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Comment on The Beauty of The Human Spirit by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/the-beauty-of-the-human-spirit/#comment-17 Mon, 07 Sep 2015 15:07:32 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1059#comment-17 Hi Kelly,

Glad you enjoyed the story before getting some sleep.

We are always on the look out for more stories and possible contributors.

So feel free to get in contact directly to share an inspiring story or if you would like to write an article for getButterflied.

Love
Nick

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Comment on The Beauty of The Human Spirit by Kelly Govett https://getbutterflied.com/the-beauty-of-the-human-spirit/#comment-16 Mon, 07 Sep 2015 13:48:34 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=1059#comment-16 Fantastic story Nick. A lovely read before some shut eye tonight. Great writing

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Comment on What On Earth Is a Multipotentialite? (A Kick Ass Ted Talk, An Overview & Some Cool Resources) by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/what-on-earth-is-a-multipotentialite-a-kick-ass-ted-talk-an-overview-some-cool-resources/#comment-15 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 17:12:33 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=589#comment-15 Hi Emilie,

Only a pleasure 🙂 As I mentioned you have helped me in so many ways.

Hope you managing with all the many projects you no doubt have on the go.

Look after yourself.

Peace
Nick

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Comment on What On Earth Is a Multipotentialite? (A Kick Ass Ted Talk, An Overview & Some Cool Resources) by Emilie https://getbutterflied.com/what-on-earth-is-a-multipotentialite-a-kick-ass-ted-talk-an-overview-some-cool-resources/#comment-14 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 15:16:09 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=589#comment-14 Hey Nick,

Thanks so much for the shout out! You’re awesome.

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Comment on Is Fear Holding you Back from Achieving Your Dreams? by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/is-fear-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams/#comment-13 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 07:55:31 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=12#comment-13 Hi Carolyn,

Really glad that you enjoyed this article. Yes, Steve Jobs was an inspiration to many. I always find reading inspirational quotes extremely motivational, actually have a folder that I open and read when I feel like this all seems pointless and as if I want to give up.

And it is true, you need to be willing to put yourself out there to achieve what you want to achieve. Putting yourself out there is scary, but once you do it, you actually find that’s its not that bad afterall.And the thing that you were scared of was not that scary in the end.

In the end it is true, not everyone will like what I have to say, and that’s okay because it’s not for everyone. Having critics very often means that you are on to something.

Thank you again for the vote of confidence and reply.

Nick

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Comment on Is Fear Holding you Back from Achieving Your Dreams? by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/is-fear-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams/#comment-12 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 07:48:54 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=12#comment-12 Hi Gordon,

Thank you for the response and opening up to share your personal story. I don’t think its the risk that scares you, its the uncertainty of what yo are doing, the outcomes are not guaranteed and that is scary. But if you maintain that belief in something, that’s half the battle won.

And whatever resources you can find to fuel that belief is great. Keep believing and more importantly start doing. Every small step is a step in the direction of your dreams, no matter how small.

I will have a look at that book you recommend. And will most definitely keep the posts coming.

Keep well
Nick

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Comment on Is Fear Holding you Back from Achieving Your Dreams? by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/is-fear-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams/#comment-11 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 07:43:08 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=12#comment-11 Hi Mich,

I’m glad that you enjoyed the article. It most definitely is easier said than done, but whatever that fear ma be, its safe to say that most often, its just in the mind and self created. Taking control of your mind is on step in the right direction. I am learning every day.

Nick

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Comment on Is Fear Holding you Back from Achieving Your Dreams? by Carolyn https://getbutterflied.com/is-fear-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams/#comment-10 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 04:53:24 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=12#comment-10 I like this! Especially the Steve Jobs quote – he is brilliant. Thinking that I’ll be dead one day puts things into perspective. There’s no point in living a life less than the one you are capable of living. You have to risk all to achieve all. Especially when it comes to writing because it’s so personal – as an aspiring author I feel fear everyday. But the truth is not everyone’s going to like your stuff, and being successful enough to have critics is half the battle won. Good luck for your venture!

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Comment on Is Fear Holding you Back from Achieving Your Dreams? by Gordon Fraser https://getbutterflied.com/is-fear-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams/#comment-9 Wed, 15 Jul 2015 15:21:16 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=12#comment-9 Great post NickD, I’m going through a similar situation right now in this new app we are trying to develop. Trying to create something that one can call their own and of course, ultimately make a difference in peoples lives. With regards to creating ones own business/ blog, the one thing that scares me is risk. Risking it all on an idea scares me, but I know that all successful business people got to where they are today due to taking the leap. But I have limited experience with risk as I have been working for the same company since I graduated, so taking that leap for me seems even riskier or further from reach. With that said, I have found it motivating listening to audio books from great business men talking about their life paths and the risky, calculated, decisions they took. One book I would definitely recommend is Richard Branson’s Business Stripped Bare, Adventures of a Global Entrepreneur. Get it here:

http://www.audiobooks.com/search/book/business%20stripped%20bare

Loving the site, keep the posts coming:)

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Comment on Is Fear Holding you Back from Achieving Your Dreams? by MichSummer https://getbutterflied.com/is-fear-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams/#comment-8 Wed, 15 Jul 2015 14:40:38 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=12#comment-8 mm yes! this article hit a nail on the head!…
I´m still figuring out what I´m most afraid of. Easier said than done.
But all of what you wrote here is oh so true!

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Comment on 10 Ways Travelling Can Transform You by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/10-ways-travelling-can-transform-you/#comment-7 Wed, 15 Jul 2015 12:37:46 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25#comment-7 Hi Michelle,

I am so happy that you could identify with this article.

Yes, I have found that whilst following your heart can be scary at times, especially as the outcomes of these actions are not guaranteed, the journey it takes you on is amazing. That in itself is a beautiful thing.

Nick

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Comment on What is the Secret to Positive Change? by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/what-is-the-secret-to-change/#comment-6 Wed, 15 Jul 2015 12:33:15 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=28#comment-6 Hi Isabelinha,

I’m very happy that you could relate to this post.

Yes,visiting the past is important sometimes. I find that it serves as a reminder of what you don’t want. The important thing is to not dwell on this and create your own path.

Nick

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Comment on Why is Getting to Know Yourself So Important? by Nick Darlington https://getbutterflied.com/why-is-getting-to-know-yourself-so-important/#comment-5 Wed, 15 Jul 2015 12:28:56 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=194#comment-5 Hi Isabelinha,

Thank you for the comment. I find it is very important to embrace who you are and as you say, not let others define who you are. It serves as a guide in your life.

Nick

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Comment on Why is Getting to Know Yourself So Important? by Isabelinha https://getbutterflied.com/why-is-getting-to-know-yourself-so-important/#comment-4 Tue, 14 Jul 2015 08:23:05 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=194#comment-4 looking at one’s self reflection and, as I call it “self interview ” not letting others define who I am and what I’m capable off. this encourages me to actually step up to society and be me. do me

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Comment on What is the Secret to Positive Change? by Isabelinha https://getbutterflied.com/what-is-the-secret-to-change/#comment-3 Tue, 14 Jul 2015 08:10:20 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=28#comment-3 the past is sometimes a good place to visit, but certainty not a great place to stay. let me quote it again; ” Out With the Old and in With The New: Creating Space for Positive Change”. Just what I needed, as much I think that I’ve totally let go and forgotten about my past, there always has to be something that triggers the thoughts I’d wish not excited. now I know what I have to do

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Comment on 10 Ways Travelling Can Transform You by Michelle https://getbutterflied.com/10-ways-travelling-can-transform-you/#comment-2 Tue, 14 Jul 2015 06:35:25 +0000 http://getbutterflied.com/?p=25#comment-2 I can totally identify with this! Reading this article took me back to the first time I left home to go traveling. I was 18 and had no idea what was coming. 10 years later I call that place i first traveled to my home.
I love the “You become better at following your heart.” part. While traveling I learned that when you follow your heart (and your gut), you can be sure you are going in the right direction. 🙂

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