Comments on: Is Fear Holding you Back from Achieving Your Dreams?

By: Nick Darlington

Thu, 16 Jul 2015 07:55:31 +0000

Hi Carolyn,

Really glad that you enjoyed this article. Yes, Steve Jobs was an inspiration to many. I always find reading inspirational quotes extremely motivational, actually have a folder that I open and read when I feel like this all seems pointless and as if I want to give up.

And it is true, you need to be willing to put yourself out there to achieve what you want to achieve. Putting yourself out there is scary, but once you do it, you actually find that’s its not that bad afterall.And the thing that you were scared of was not that scary in the end.

In the end it is true, not everyone will like what I have to say, and that’s okay because it’s not for everyone. Having critics very often means that you are on to something.

Thank you again for the vote of confidence and reply.

Nick

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By: Nick Darlington

Thu, 16 Jul 2015 07:48:54 +0000

Hi Gordon,

Thank you for the response and opening up to share your personal story. I don’t think its the risk that scares you, its the uncertainty of what yo are doing, the outcomes are not guaranteed and that is scary. But if you maintain that belief in something, that’s half the battle won.

And whatever resources you can find to fuel that belief is great. Keep believing and more importantly start doing. Every small step is a step in the direction of your dreams, no matter how small.

I will have a look at that book you recommend. And will most definitely keep the posts coming.

Keep well
Nick

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By: Nick Darlington

Thu, 16 Jul 2015 07:43:08 +0000

Hi Mich,

I’m glad that you enjoyed the article. It most definitely is easier said than done, but whatever that fear ma be, its safe to say that most often, its just in the mind and self created. Taking control of your mind is on step in the right direction. I am learning every day.

Nick

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By: Carolyn

Thu, 16 Jul 2015 04:53:24 +0000

I like this! Especially the Steve Jobs quote – he is brilliant. Thinking that I’ll be dead one day puts things into perspective. There’s no point in living a life less than the one you are capable of living. You have to risk all to achieve all. Especially when it comes to writing because it’s so personal – as an aspiring author I feel fear everyday. But the truth is not everyone’s going to like your stuff, and being successful enough to have critics is half the battle won. Good luck for your venture!

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By: Gordon Fraser

Wed, 15 Jul 2015 15:21:16 +0000

Great post NickD, I’m going through a similar situation right now in this new app we are trying to develop. Trying to create something that one can call their own and of course, ultimately make a difference in peoples lives. With regards to creating ones own business/ blog, the one thing that scares me is risk. Risking it all on an idea scares me, but I know that all successful business people got to where they are today due to taking the leap. But I have limited experience with risk as I have been working for the same company since I graduated, so taking that leap for me seems even riskier or further from reach. With that said, I have found it motivating listening to audio books from great business men talking about their life paths and the risky, calculated, decisions they took. One book I would definitely recommend is Richard Branson’s Business Stripped Bare, Adventures of a Global Entrepreneur. Get it here:

http://www.audiobooks.com/search/book/business%20stripped%20bare

Loving the site, keep the posts coming:)

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By: MichSummer

Wed, 15 Jul 2015 14:40:38 +0000

mm yes! this article hit a nail on the head!…
I´m still figuring out what I´m most afraid of. Easier said than done.
But all of what you wrote here is oh so true!

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